let's find a wife to jay kay

[joliefille]

Very well-said.

(I think it's suffice to say the brains have been passed on. I like your goal and priorities. Props to you

[Giba7]

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[caroli]

Comes with aging and becoming a college girl. In a few years I'll be signing projects and I must be prepared

[joliefille]

So Caroli - I believe I read you are Portuguese - beautiful language and music. It makes me think of my other favorite singers - Astrud and Bebel Gilberto (I love the entire bossa nova period - my favorite jazz artist is Stan Getz, whom I fell in love with after hearing "girl from Ipanema")

Ok - so on that topic of talent/gifts being passed down - I forgot the example of Joao, Astrud and Bebel all being such beautiful singers. Both Astrud and Bebel have these clean, crisp, soft very unique voices that I recognize where ever I am eating, watching a film etc. Is that genetic, no?

Also feel the same about PSH passing - I felt so sad - it hit me. He was so incredibly talented in everything he was in - and always so humble and cool. Hope he is at peace. He was so chill; I was shocked last year to know he was a heroin addict.

It is so sad that the world or its pressures - or is this genetic too - make people turn to drugs to escape or make them better? or numb the pressures of life and a sometimes cruel world. I've been around people who abuse them and read tons of books but never quite understand drug abuse. I am around a lot of occasional users as well, which I understand more because of partying and being in the moment. Yet still I like to be to control and too wary about drugs even when partying.

Maybe I am to vain or too cheap or/and saw drugs destroy too many lives - but other than drinking or an occasional toke - I just can't get mixed up in that. I am crazy and high enough w/o drugs - lol

Who knows . . . . but it is always sad to lose talent to drugs - people who share a gift with the world to drugs. So many legends/talents we lost.

Also when DJ AM passed - it felt personal; Amy Winehouse . . . geez the list is so long. And people so young.

(btw, we need new threads; I'll read stuff here and forget where it was posted.)

[MrsMadHattersHat]

I can't sleep and I was just thinking... let me take a look, maybe they found a wife for (to) Jay.
I believe not.
Hello everybody! I'm back!

[joliefille]

Glad there are other insomniacs out there.

Haha! this thread always makes me laugh. Dude does not need a wife nor help finding chicks/birds it seems - just the proper womb and hopefully, some little Jays running around. I honestly stand by what I posted here earlier - I forget how long ago. No marriage, ironclad legal agreement re property, custody etc., child support (in case things don't work out 50/50 chance it won't)

Marriage did not change my relationship with my husband - it was just helpful legally re benefits, buying a home, property allocation etc etc- and the wedding on the beach/party reception was actually quite fun although I was scared to get married. We lived together before getting married - and everything was the same thereafter. But what changed the relationship was having our little one. We were like hormonal animals BB (before baby)- I read somewhere "Marriage is what makes us human." Funny but it is kind of true - priorities change, attention is divided, you grow up, make a will, create trust funds for the future and in the bedroom it is kind of like "down boy" - we do not need another so soon. haha

[Giba7]

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[joliefille]

Ok - every time I post here I feel like an arse bc trust, dude does not need any help in this department. I am sure he has quite the collection of beautiful birds .

Love is so unpredictable and usually comes when you are not looking for it. That's about all I know on the topic. I've been crazy in love with a guy for a month, 6 months or 2 years - I do not know what it is but I like the rush/the high in the beginning and kept chasing that high. It is the best thing in the world - when you just cannot get enough of someone. The push and the pull. Is that love? Who knows?

The reason I had to implement the no actor/no athletes/no musicians rule (oh and no one with a PP) is because the cheating and instability and the drama and the bs and lies. I mean these guys have women in every city; it's fun when you are just dating for a good time but to create a family with - I had to use my brain as well as my heart. For my daughter or future kids, I want stability, my heart to feel safe and someone I can trust. And even still, I really do not trust anybody but myself.

[joliefille]

Oh and God, I also needed someone with a good sense of humor and very very smart and challenging. That's what makes it really good - I need mental stimulation (the other kind comes easily - lol I need the banter and laughter.

Also, I love that my husband does not smother me and gives me space - and does not take it personal when I go off to the other side of the house to read, come here - lol. I cannot be around someone 24/7 - I can't.

I think we should just discuss our love lives here; not Jay's - based on my experience he probably (and very smartly) wants to keep a tight lid on whomever he's errrm probing. hahaha!

Perhaps by sharing, we'll learn a thing or two about ourselves. I have.

[KalillovesJamiro]

Hey JAY!1!1!! just wanna b ur gurl;) pls respornde i wanna see you irl and kiss you all over! ur so hawt dayum! <3 love Kalil M xo <3

[popalot]

Is he really so alone?
He has everything!
Has he stopped drinking?
Cant have a wife and kids unless free of these things

[joliefille]

ok - I am dying laughing at the post above popalot. holy cow - this has to be a joke - hahahahaha!

Lovely girl - whoever, wherever you are -thanks for the chuckles and huge grin on my face. Best of luck to you and be erm, safe

Popalot - I agree drugs/alcohol - any substance abuse - are not good for marriage, long term relationships. People tend to make really poor choices under the influence (I am not judging as I am guilty of this.)

Also, I find it very exhausting to deal w/ people who abuse drugs/alcohol because you never know if they are going to be Jeckyl or Hyde. Also, the dark depression that sets in where drugs wear off or they are coming down off the "high" - it's too hard to handle (Isn't that a Black Crows song? It would not work for me.

[popalot]

Is he seeing anyone now?
Dunno 31 now not 15 anymore

[popalot]

Glad i made you smiley, i am a funny girl, big kid

[joliefille]

haha Awwh yes, all the digging into Jayfizzle's personal life makes me chuckle. I am surprised you have not heard the news - he seeing someone here, there and everywhere

I have to admit; I am more curious about Stu, whom I just discovered. Never knew anything about the band members - current or prior till recently. Is he seeing anyone? Those eyes, eyebrows and lips . . .and he seems so chill and zen. Beautiful man - inside and out.

I never hear anything about any of the band members except from few models regarding Jayfizzle (which I will keep to myself

[popalot]

Well hope everyone finds whose right for them

[funkygarden]

Hi I avoid this topic at all costs usually but I just have to say I know jamiroquai really well I've been backstage many times and have been very lucky to have been invited to gigs and attend many of their own projects. I have NEVER witnessed any of them being unfaithful, they are complete gentlemen and are really very funny!!! Not every musician is like that. (sorry to spoil your fun lol)! Some musicians just love their music, full-stop. xxx

[popalot]

Yeah if they wanna stay single and as you say get lost in music that o.k, personal choice but i meant if they wanted 1, we must all have some1 who is out exact match.
Glad you had fun

[Giba7]

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[popalot]

Don't think Jay wants a wife. People in show business don't. Rarely does it work if they do

[ElTouffoDrum]

Don't think Jay wants a wife. People in show business don't. Rarely does it work if they do

Jay isn't in showbiz anymore. I think he just have a special personality

[Giba7]

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[popalot]

Dunno so long as he doesn't ever feel depressed is good.
Feel so sad about Robin Williams.
Hope I am not the only person bothering with Jay as I am so lonely.
Celebs feel sad when people forget them or sad when too many people recognise them.
If he's not in show business anymore, is he bored?
He has to work out what he wants and make sure is a positive path
I don't like fame and I don't wanna be famous. Only tried to get Russell Brand.
Jay yeah chased him a bit but only as he was my school crush.
Neither are suitable for me as they have been exposed too long to the perils of fame and would hurt me.
This is not good but I still appreciate their comedy and music as a fan.

[cacouna]

Dunno so long as he doesn't ever feel depressed is good.
Feel so sad about Robin Williams.
Hope I am not the only person bothering with Jay as I am so lonely.
Celebs feel sad when people forget them or sad when too many people recognise them.
If he's not in show business anymore, is he bored?
He has to work out what he wants and make sure is a positive path
I don't like fame and I don't wanna be famous. Only tried to get Russell Brand.
Jay yeah chased him a bit but only as he was my school crush.
Neither are suitable for me as they have been exposed too long to the perils of fame and would hurt me.
This is not good but I still appreciate their comedy and music as a fan.

[Giba7]

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