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Postby cheeeba lover on Wed Apr 19, 2006 6:55 am

hey i found this old article..its interesting and i dont like hairy women just like jay :D

Jay of Jamiroquai:
The Emergent Funkateer

Would you like to shag to your own music?
"No. No. No. No. The trouble is, I mean shagging to music can be a pain because one tends to get in time and not really pay attention to the job at hand."

What's on your shagging tape?
"Well, Kool And The Gang's 'Summer Madness', 'Pleasure Guide', Joyous' by Pleasure, the whole of Marvin Gaye's 'I Want You', but that's just as a matter of course isn't it? The Isley Brothers 'Who's That Lady'."

Most intense erotic experience?
"It was actually quite recently; I met somebody who I was quite into and the erotica was kind of more love and I enjoyed that. There was actually very little sexual contact, there was no er penetration but it was nice. (Embarrassed) The most intense moment was well the rubbing of the (dissolves into giggles), the rubbing of member against other flesh. Just pleasantry, you know? She's gone to Goa but she's coming back soon... and we'd also partaken of some LSD. No wonder it was intense? Well exactly."

Ever had a homosexual experience?
"Not that I recall. I think I'll leave that to the chaps with the mustaches. Very nice, but not for me thanks."

First sexual experience?
"It was wicked! I was 13, she was 17. It lasted all of about two minutes, but it was fantastic. Much better than playing with yourself, anyway. She was playing a bit of a game, you know, I'm the older girl, you're a young boy, and she lay on the bed with a little towel round her and I got the horn and thought, Aye, aye, I could take liberties here, what's all this about? And I found out what pubic hairs were all about."

What turns you off?
"Er, women with mustaches. And girls that want to jump into bed too quick, man. That does turn me off. Especially in the perilous times we live in. I must say I'm very wary of girls who jump into bed quick, and they're in bed and making a V and I kind of think that's dangerous because if you do that with me how many other geezers have you done that with? Hairy armpits on girls. I've always thought a lady is a lady and shouldn't really have hairy armpits."

What's your favourite sexual fantasy?
"Ummmmm. Well, it aint being with two women. My ultimate fantasy is to make love with true love. I know that might sound bit boring, but I haven't really been in love properly, so it does mean a lot to me. Because then you can just go all the way can't you? You could do anything you like and you can get a bit harder and get into some role-playing and all that. It's good stuff."

What is a pervert?
"Playing with kids, sh*t like that, physical violence... simulated violence is good. Well, not good but if it's something that you lead on to so as to keep the relationship alive, like a bit rough and ready. But, but, but... I would draw the line early, I think. A good sling on to the bed and ripping off of the clothes is all good clean fun, nothing nasty. Just good clean fun."

What's the second thing you look for in a woman?
"The first thing is really the personality. The second is the body and the looks. The whole lot. I suppose it's the first thing, but they might be thick as pigshit, you know what I mean? You generally know. There's something about the quiet girl who's sitting in the corner, doesn't say a lot but is really cute and mysterious. Never the woman who's dancing on the table, or the one that grabs you arm when you're walking down the street. I'm too reserved."

Do you use a condom?
"Yep. Always. Always. I have had sex in my time without a condom, but that was a lot earlier on in my career. I'm a realist, I've got far too much to live for. There's so much more to do than intercourse anyway. If you haven't got a condom you can get round that. If you f**k like rabbits every day you get bored. If it's spread out, like say every two weeks then it's serious, and you look forward to it and it's worth it. And you don't get bored. Relationships are in vogue."

What's your most regrettable sexual experience?
"My mate said, Oh there's these two girls-let's go round there! And we went round, and his was alright but my one was not happening. Not the sort of girl I would have gone for at all. But of course the bottle had been opened, and as the night went on she started to look a bit better... Then in the morning I found myself in the bedroom cowering on the side of the bed. I was out of the house so fast! I just thought, Why did I do that, why did I bother? I felt like a fool/ I've never seen her since."

Do you use pornography?
"What to enhance...? Well pornography - I think they make such a big deal out of it and it isn't. I've certainly seen my share of dirty films, you know, Back Door Girls and all that. I just laugh at them anyway. I have used it when I was a bit younger. I wouldn't use it with a girl really. I wouldn't play that card now. Sex with one person is something that can last for ever so long, and you can really still be well interested and play all sorts of really good games. But... I'd save all that till I'm 30, then you could watch a video and say, Lets do what they do."

Have you ever used the Pinch Method?
"What's that? No I can't say that I have. I'll have to try it, thanks."

Describe your ideal woman.
"Dark, Latin American, big brown eyes. Nice and soft and sensual and warm and cuddly."

How do you rate yourself sexually?
"I'm very sensual and imaginative and, because I've been with a lot of girls over the years and I haven't always had intercourse with them, so I'e kept myself kind of clean and fresh. When I'm having sex with a girl, I'm thinking about her and... it's like a massage, if someone gives you a massage and they're not putting their thoughts through their hands, it's no good. I'm not Casanova. that's for sure. I'm just average. I could be Mr. Pinch and keep it going for hours with pinch marks all over me, but as far as I'm concerned I don't think there's anything wrong with a nice half an hour extravaganza. I'm a Capricorn, you see. We're late starters. The girl who gets it together with me has got it all to come. When they get to 30, 35, when they really want it, then I'll be there. Ha, ha, ha, ha, haa!"

Who did you fancy when you were younger?
"I fancied Stephanie Hart out of Hart to Hart. I wanted to give her one badly. And I fancied Jane Seymour, and Barbara Bach, I was really into those Bond girl types - I really wanted some of that. Pussy Galore, Honor Blackman. She was great and she still looks for about 70."

How important is sex to you?
"Oh, it's very important, but not more important than music. Not more important than my friends. And not more important than classic cars. It's not more important than a good nights sleep. It is very important to me. - I love it, I do love it. It's great. And yeah, I do take my hat off."
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Postby little v on Wed Apr 19, 2006 7:22 am

good for him! Its true people want to shag a.s.a.p, wots the point do that and there's nothing exciting to look forward too, build up the tension its better :wink:
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Postby duki on Wed Apr 19, 2006 2:48 pm

I love this interview. Thanks, Cheeba Lover! I like when he says that he doesn't like girls jumping to bed quckly, I mean what the heck is the point in that? Where did that wonderful feeling of longing go? I like the fact that he is sincere, very mature (I say very mature, because there are people in their 60s that are acting silly and it's disguisting) and when he says that he is no Casanova, I think he is, because of that respect for women and the way he treats them.

And I like when he says that his fantasy is to make love to a true love. Are there any man left like he is, please, contact me? :lol: :wink: No, really, this a strange world we are living in, no romance, girls getting drunk and getting in and out of bed so quickly, so many perverts... It makes you wonder.
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Postby ivy on Wed Apr 19, 2006 7:29 pm

wow :lol: never read that thanks cheeeba
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Postby yougivemesomething on Wed Apr 19, 2006 7:38 pm

hm, his picture of an ideal woman must be changing every day...
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Postby freaky on Wed Apr 19, 2006 8:51 pm

yougivemesomething wrote:hm, his picture of an ideal woman must be changing every day...


In the interview he was 30..some years have passed!
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Postby PocketFullOfRainbows on Thu Apr 20, 2006 12:55 am

:lol: I read that before..he cracks me up.
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Postby maru_diksaitis on Thu Apr 20, 2006 3:57 am

you can tell he is a real gentleman!

i speccially like the part when he says that he likes those women who maybe don't say anything,but still say a lot (do i explain myself?). but in fact if you think about that, i dont suppose that is the image he displays. i mean, he seems more like the kind of man who goes to a party,and comes out with the most beautiful lady!
anyway,thats my opinion

but if he is looking for a "Dark, Latin American, big brown eyes. Nice and soft and sensual and warm and cuddly" girl, he can find me in Buenos Aires! ajajajajajaj
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Postby cheeeba lover on Thu Apr 20, 2006 6:28 am

just to brake your illusions..jay said what you wanted to hear
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Postby maru_diksaitis on Thu Apr 20, 2006 7:01 am

that was the first thing that came up to my mind (and why i said i dont think that is the kind of girl he actually seem to like)

but come on, let us (the girls) be naive for a while!
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Postby cheeeba lover on Thu Apr 20, 2006 7:09 am

hehe! :D
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Postby djodjo on Thu Apr 20, 2006 9:56 am

Hmmmm... interesting.... :wink:

I like this part: "And yeah, I do take my hat off." :lol:

I hear usually (the rumours say) Jay likes that girls who have blond hair... 8)
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Postby zaratino on Thu Apr 20, 2006 1:33 pm

"and we'd also partaken of some LSD. No wonder it was intense? Well exactly."

hahahaha...it has to be intense....hahahhaa...cool...at least he was honest!
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Postby goldmember on Thu Apr 20, 2006 2:02 pm

cheeeba lover wrote:just to brake your illusions..jay said what you wanted to hear


HAHAHA! You're right,but think there's lot of truth!
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Postby ivy on Thu Apr 20, 2006 4:11 pm

cheeeba lover wrote:just to brake your illusions..jay said what you wanted to hear


yeah very true you just have to look at him between 30 and 35 to have an idea of what he really wanted to say :lol:
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Postby Cheecat on Thu Apr 20, 2006 8:51 pm

haha! that's funny. just some hours ago I looked through my old time planer from '00/'01 and found a copy of exactly that interview :lol:

And yes, longing makes Sex much much better. But actually it's often the men who can't stay for a longer time without it in a relationship and then it really gets boring, no matter what new stuff you try out.
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Postby mr.aZ on Thu Apr 20, 2006 11:55 pm

maru_diksaitis wrote:you can tell he is a real gentleman!

i speccially like the part when he says that he likes those women who maybe don't say anything,but still say a lot (do i explain myself?). but in fact if you think about that, i dont suppose that is the image he displays. i mean, he seems more like the kind of man who goes to a party,and comes out with the most beautiful lady!
anyway,thats my opinion

but if he is looking for a "Dark, Latin American, big brown eyes. Nice and soft and sensual and warm and cuddly" girl, he can find me in Buenos Aires! ajajajajajaj


:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
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Postby DJ Romeo on Fri Apr 21, 2006 8:27 am

:lol: :lol:
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Postby yumisa on Fri Apr 21, 2006 10:13 am

forget it 8) :lol: :P
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Postby PrettyPolly on Sat Apr 22, 2006 3:58 am

Hahaha, that was a good read :lol:
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Postby sedaquai on Sat Apr 22, 2006 2:29 pm

just laughing :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
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Postby jamirocat on Fri Apr 28, 2006 6:01 pm

one could get horny just reading all that!

We share the same fantasy:

"My ultimate fantasy is to make love with true love. I know that might sound bit boring, but I haven't really been in love properly, so it does mean a lot to me. Because then you can just go all the way can't you? You could do anything you like and you can get a bit harder and get into some role-playing and all that. It's good stuff."

true love making love...mmm and all that rough and ready stuff!
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Postby Foxxy Cleopatra on Fri Apr 28, 2006 9:45 pm

i like everything i read, but the line "Dark, Latin American, big brown eyes" ...urrrr :? :cry:
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Postby ivy on Fri Apr 28, 2006 11:09 pm

Foxxy Cleopatra wrote:i like everything i read, but the line "Dark, Latin American, big brown eyes" ...urrrr :? :cry:


there's a solution for that ..just head down to a tanning salon and hair salon, or if you wanna go cheap go to your local drug store and pick up number 24 mahogany dream (with built in highlights) and jergen's summer glow lotion hehe :lol: :wink:
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Postby Foxxy Cleopatra on Sat Apr 29, 2006 12:06 pm

ivy wrote:
Foxxy Cleopatra wrote:i like everything i read, but the line "Dark, Latin American, big brown eyes" ...urrrr :? :cry:


there's a solution for that ..just head down to a tanning salon and hair salon, or if you wanna go cheap go to your local drug store and pick up number 24 mahogany dream (with built in highlights) and jergen's summer glow lotion hehe :lol: :wink:


hmm...yeah..but i'll always miss the "Latin American" thing ??? :lol:

oh god, i would never change my fair skin and hair, even for Jason himself, hahaha :P
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