How do you feel right now?

[cacouna]

[MissLisa_since1999]

A bit tensed 'cause I have to finish a dossier & revise a Biology test, tired, happy to be here and er... that's all I think... hey, analysing our feelings is not so easy.

[caroli]

Very pissed cause I wanted to go out but my friends (one by one) dropped our plans, very tired cause I had an Algebra exam today (even though it's Saturday) and a bit depressed cause..err...you all know it. I thought I could handle it, I can't. This must be by far the most difficult thing I have ever EVER done

[curse_t_70]

@ Caroli, it must be hard to study with Luis in your brain.....How do you feel you did in the algebra anyways Did you nail it?

[MissLisa_since1999]

Hmm... But I thought you liked numbers so... hopefully it went well. Keep us informed anyway!

[Giba7]

I'm sorry Caroli it's so tough. Hope it gets easier or works out.

[caroli]

Algebra went fine when I'm VERY focused on something, Luis disappears..but when I'm not focused, I drift away! and that feeling is new to me, never had to deal with this before what is it called?

[ophone]

Quite annoyed because I'm not tired enough to sleep...

[caroli]

Quite annoyed because I'm not tired enough to sleep...

It happens ALL the time..simply awful!

[curse_t_70]

Oh so sleepy...........must stay awake. I took an extra evening shift to make up for all the extra time I took off @ christmas. I didn't have any more vacation time (and my paycheck suffered) so I am trying to make up for it.

[Giba7]

I had insomnia this week too!

and that feeling is new to me, never had to deal with this before what is it called?

Reality. Sucks.

[Jazzhole]

Feeling awesome... i work hard for it!

[caroli]

Reality hun? Damn you! I'll catch you someday..just beware!

[Giba7]

and that feeling is new to me, never had to deal with this before what is it called?

I think it's heartbreak?

Reality hun? Damn you! I'll catch you someday..just beware!

Are you talking to me? Sorry. My locations was in the Center of Reality.

[caroli]

I was talking to Reality actually... Luis told me yesterday that "he wasn't good at first but he tried his best to forget".. didn't tell me If he had succeed but I don't think I can handle the answer so I might aswell leave it there..

[Giba7]

Had to post this intriguing thought from FB:

"If you love, you will suffer. The only way to protect yourself against suffering is to protect yourself against love — and that is the greatest suffering of all, loneliness." - Peter Kreeft

So true. So true.

[curse_t_70]

Completely levelled! everyone wanted a piece of me @ work

[Giba7]

Completely levelled! everyone wanted a piece of me

I'll have to add that term to my vocabulary! Yes -I know how you feel!
i.e. - drained.

[caroli]

Had to post this intriguing thought from FB:

"If you love, you will suffer. The only way to protect yourself against suffering is to protect yourself against love — and that is the greatest suffering of all, loneliness." - Peter Kreeft

So true. So true.

That's indeed, very true, but I would live perfectly happy without this emptiness..

[Jazzhole]

@Giba7

That's a great quote. I have traits of an avoidant type ( recommend checking out attachment theory) wich means i kinda have an hard time connectin with women, mainly because of past experiences ( you are educated to think girls poop sunbeams and it smells like roses and then you start to see some crazy stuff... like "closing the deal" with women who have a boyfriend, seeing women manipulating man and so on...)
The problem is that you're icing a feeling that's a deep wish of yours and that sucks, so i totally relate to that quote.

@ Caroli

Why don't you man-up and tell him how you feel?

[Giba7]

@Giba7

That's a great quote. I have traits of an avoidant type ( recommend checking out attachment theory) wich means i kinda have an hard time connectin with women, mainly because of past experiences ( you are educated to think girls poop sunbeams and it smells like roses and then you start to see some crazy stuff... like "closing the deal" with women who have a boyfriend, seeing women manipulating man and so on...)
The problem is that you're icing a feeling that's a deep wish of yours and that sucks, so i totally relate to that quote.

Uh, you don't think I have any theories on girls pooping sunbeams, right?
My study has nothing to do with love and relationships!
But all to do with understanding people and what they come from.
(And I don't know where I stand regarding the 'Kreeft' quote. I just posted)

Advice: take relationships slow. Everybody has the capacity to love. Don't plan on closing the deal with a girl with a boyfriend. Loving someone is something, but being in love is all about trust and availability. And takes time.

Finding the right person is like shopping for clothes. You can't sit at home and design your perfect outfit. You must get out to the stores to see what is available and try them on to find the perfect fit. (my quote )

And agree, Caroli should point blank address her issues with her beau.
I have no issues communicating my feelings!

[caroli]

I told him already! I didn't like the answer.

[StormeyG]

Completely levelled! everyone wanted a piece of me

I'll have to add that term to my vocabulary! Yes -I know how you feel!
i.e. - drained.

I call it Totally Run Down! But Levelled is a good one too. Hope you girls feel energetic soon!

[curse_t_70]

@Giba and Stormey- another way of saying it is..." I feel like I have been run over by a mac truck"
BUT today, I am happy to report since it is my day off I am feeling Superior! but not in a cocky way

[caroli]

I feel like crap.